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Looking for friends... In and out of bed. I'm fun and can provide references!
I/We are looking for
After making it all the way to being (Young) middle age as a married man I am now setting off an a new chapter in my life as a single male (Oh no! Not one of THEM!) Yes, one of them... But not quite.
I'm not desperate or depraved. I'm not needy and I'm not (I don't think) creepy. I'm just a good natured guy who is in touch with his sexuality and who knows that sex is a recreational activity one can enjoy with friends as long as everyone is comfortable and willing.
I enjoy the flirting and the enhanced sexual atmosphere that goes with this, but I am also definitely looking to play. Very open-minded about possible activities.
I'm 6'3" 255# short blond graying hair, blue eyes, and V-safe.
I don't claim to be an expert, but I do have some experience and opinions that I am willing to share. I have enjoyed the opportunity to help bringing new couples into the lifestyle and can respect others boundaries and reservations while still having a good time. --- My life is very busy with work and family and I take those things very seriously. I spend most of my time at home with my kids and my home life will always come first! But when the timing works out that the kids are away... Look out world here I come! I have been involved in this for several years with my Ex and find the experiences refreshing.
I am looking to enjoy myself and make friends. What happens next is the mystery that makes it so exciting! I love enthusiasm and people who are expressive... Meaning that they aren't afraid to speak their desires and aren't afraid of embarrassment. If you want to try something or if you like something speak up! I am always willing to discuss.
Flirting and playing are some of the finest pleasures in life. I enjoy talking with new people just looking into the swinger's life and answering questions. I have many years of doing this as part of a couple, and I am willing to share what I have learned.
***** WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this ****
My Ideal Person: I enjoy the company of others, I believe in honest and open relationships without head-games. I am looking for people I want to spend time with. I may not HAVE enough time... But we should at least WISH we did right? Too many people are trying to escape their own relationships... I refuse to be a party to hurting someone else's, so please be a stable couple or a single woman with a mature sexual attitude.
Knowing a little about the people contacting me is important, and as much as it may be unfair, first impressions DO make a difference. So an e-mail saying "We are a couple looking to get busy this weekend" is just not enough... if you can't take the time to tell me a little about yourself, then what does that say about your potential sexuality? I think a big part of sexual attraction is personality, so I would definitely want to get to know you before hopping in bed. If you do not have face pics, it will be something I will ask for before agreeing to meet. While personality is really important to me? there needs to be a potential for physical/sexual chemistry and faces are a big part of that. That doesn't mean we wouldn't play the first time we meet, but there would need to be a strong chemistry there and it wouldn't mean I'm not interested if it didn't happen the first "date".
I thank you for your time and consideration, and I hope to hear from you soon! ----- P.S. I just went back and read this profile from start to finish... It took me One minute and 25 seconds.... Anyone thinking that a minute and a half is a long time... Well... What was it we are trying to get together to do again?
Describe Yourself:
I am 6'3" 255# short blond greying hair, blue eyes, and V-safe. I don't claim to be an expert, but I do have some experience and opinions in the lifestyle as a couple that I am willing to share. As a couple, We have enjoyed bringing new couples into the lifestyle and learned to respect others boundaries and reservations while still having a good time. --- My life is very busy with work and family and I take those things very seriously. I spend most of our time at home with My youngest child and my home life will always come first! But when the timing works out that She is away... Look out world here I come!
Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
I was involved in this as part of a married couple for about more than ten years and found the experiences refreshing. --- Fantasies... Those would be things that you WANT to try, but haven't had the opportunity or the willingness to attempt.... --- Nope... No real fantasies... But I AM interested in getting some new ones and re-living some of the good ones! No real taboos either. I am looking to enjoy myself and make friends. What happens next is the mystery that makes it so exciting!
What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
I love enthusiasm and people who are expressive... Meaning that they aren't afraid to speak their desires and aren't afraid of embarrassment. If you want to try something or if you like something speak up! I am always willing to discuss. I am the most open-minded person you may have ever met. Flirting and playing are some of the finest pleasures in life. I enjoy talking with new people just looking into the swinger's life and answering questions.
We do have a couple of suggestion for couples posting their profiles - include a picture of the guy! (And not just his penis). The attraction has to be there all around, and no point being shy. Plus, posting pictures of just her makes it seem like wife swapping (here is what I have to offer...), which is not the way we think of it. Show a little about your personalities, We are lovers, not Gynecologists, and we are FAR more attracted to a profile that tells WHO you are, than by one that shows what you have between your legs. --- We are members of a couple fantastic Yahoo groups and we can be reached on Yahoo Messenger and yahoo e-mail under the same profile name -- Welookdoyou, so please feel free to look us up there. --- For those of you who were willing to bear through reading all this... We thank you for your time and consideration, and we hope to hear from you soon!
----- P.S. I just went back and read our profile from start to finish... It took me One minute and 25 seconds.... Anyone thinking that a minute and a half is a long time... Well... What was it we are trying to get together to do again?
***** WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this ****
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